Dating people with health problems
Kate Stewart, a psychotherapist and dating coach, says that if you're dating someone with whom you see long-term relationship potential, it's generally a good idea to start talking about mental health issues sooner rather than later.
It might not necessarily be the best first date material, but she says that about a month or so into a relationship is a good time to at least begin the conversation.
If you started dating someone and found out right off the bet that a man has some kind of health issue that he will have to live with for the rest of his life (such as diabetes), would you pursue the relationship anyway? Another reason why I never listen to friends The only reason I keep the network is they feed my ego from time to time.
Otherwise, they're of no use to me There have been instances where I came close to listening. That friend discouraged it becoz she was speaking only for her selfish self Couple of years ago, my sister met and fell in love with a man who has diabetes.
Someone in the advanced stages of cancer or some other terminal illness would be difficult because it would be so traumatic to get attached to someone who you know is going to die soon. Otherwise, they're of no use to me There have been instances where I came close to listening. That friend discouraged it becoz she was speaking only for her selfish self At the end of the day, she didn't listen to her friend or anyone for that matter.
Her friends whispering in her ear was a non-issue, because she had too much life experience to disregard what was told. At the end of the day, she didn't listen to her friend or anyone for that matter.
Couple of years ago, my sister met and fell in love with a man who has diabetes.
So, I wouldn't have a problem at all dating someone with a health issue, as long as they are well-educated about it and know what they need to do, take good care of themselves, and follow doctor's orders.
She told me that when she started dating him, her close friend gave her slack for dating a guy with a health issue.
Something in the lines of: "why do you wanna deal with this, you already have 3 children on your hand, you don't need to be worrying about this". If my sister listened to her girlfriend, she wouldn't be as happy as she is right now.
Because "if it isn’t said earlier or early-ish, people may feel it’s been kept from them specifically," Stewart says.
Of course, when and how you choose to talk about it with a new partner might depend on the specific mental health struggles you're facing.
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